Words

I'm not quite sure we understand the power of words. One negative hurtful word can said out of hand or without a thought is like a seed that stuck deep into a persons soul. You might think that what I am saying is extreme, but think with me a minute. Think back the earliest memory you have of someone saying something hurtful, and tell me how still feels. Our words are powerful.

We get mad or we're annoyed and we strike out. An off handed comment, a verbal jab, done without thinking. Except that word sinks in. It begins to grow. It feeds on self esteem and the only fruit bears is insecurity.

As the word grow larger,it grow stronger and so does the insecurity. Over the time the person spirit get week, brittle then broken. Most of the time the only think left is BITTERNESS.

A person is destroyed because we don't understand the power of our words.

Word for the Day! T O L E R A N C E!!

Everyone is entitled with their own opinion (we all know that). You can not tell someone to Shut the fuck up just because you don't want to hear what he's saying. Life doesn't work like that. I have heard a lot of negative words/opinions from other people and from people that I care about (friends and family). People may blame you on things that you didn't do. They may criticize your choices. They may judge you by your physical appearance.And they may disapprove on your principles in life.

You can't put an apple on their mouth to stop them from uttering those words. It's Inevitable. They may not be in the position to say those words and they may not know the whole story, but you can't stop them because it is their Human Right (unless the opinion is defamatory). You owe them those opinions, same way as they owe you. All you can do is Bear it,Deal with it, and Tolerate it. Like some of our Folks do....

"In the practice of tolerance, one's enemy is the best teacher"

-Jack Welch

"Human diversity makes tolerance more than a virtue; it makes it a requirement for survival."

-Mitch Hedberg

"Tolerance can lead to learning something. "

-Wayne Dyer

Rant...Inhale...Exhale...Release!!

Note: It is just another blah blah moment. Feel free to click the red X at the upper right side of your monitor. I won't get mad. I promise :D

We all have baggage to carry. Don't think as if you're the only one who is suffering and experiencing, on the thing they called problem! "You are not the only person in this world".

I have a different opinion when talking about problem. I believe that problems are blessings! I know it sound strange. But for me its true.Problems are blessings in disguise.Maybe because I have experienced every possible problem you can imagine.

Friends ditches you.Plans always backfires. People disappoints you. That's how life f*ck us all. Its inevitable.

We are blinded by the pain.That's why we see those blessings as problems. Friends ditches you because "HE" wants you to meet more people to inspire you. Plans always backfires so you can think for better option not only for yourself but for the people around you . People keeps on disappointing you, for you to learn not to expect too much on them.

All the baggage, problems, blessings whatever you want to call them,will gonna make sense in time. Believe me my heart is talking!

Why?

We all have questions in life. Like.. Why do we lie to our mother when we're kids when they ask us if we already finished our homework? Why do you hate yourself during adolescent stage because your classmate has bigger boobs than yours?Why did you torture yourself cleaning your hands over and over again?Why do you keep on throwing up after eating your favorite meal? Why do you drink vodka even if you really don't like the taste? And why do we do the things we do?
Life is full of mystery. Even our own self is a walking mystery we must discover. The way we THINK,FEEL and BEHAVE are the clues so that we can fully understand ourselves. We can only unlock that mystery if we focus our minds on those things and not be blinded by emotions.